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Parenting involves a certain amount of discretion. There is no one standard rule for all children. Different children may need different levels of attention, expression of love, and toughness.

1: Recognize the Privilege

It is a privilege that this child – this bundle of joy – has come through you and arrived in your house. Never consider children are your property; they do not belong to you.

Just see how to enjoy, nurture, and support them. Don’t try to make them an investment for your future.

2: Let Them Be

Let them become whatever they have to become. Don’t try to mold them according to your understanding of life. Your child need not do what you did in your life. Your child should do something that you did not even dare to think in your life. Only then will the world progress.

3: Give Them ‘True’ Love

People misunderstand that loving their children is to cater to whatever they ask for. If you get them everything they ask, it is utter stupidity? When you truly love someone, you are willing to do what is best for them and still stay unpopular.

4: Don’t Rush Them Into Growing Up

It is very important a child remains a child; there is no hurry to make him into an adult. When he is a child and he behaves like a child, it’s wonderful. When he becomes an adult and behaves like a child, that’s bad. There is no hurry for a child to become an adult.

5: Make It A Time To Learn, Not To Teach

More than just trying to teach your child every time, rather closely watch their unique way of behaving, handling things and how different they perceive. It will turn out to be good learning experience for you.

If you want to teach, probably you will be able to teach few survival skills. If you compare yourself with your child, you will be able to find out that your child will be more joyful than you.

When a child comes, it’s time to learn, not teach.

6: Nurture Their Natural Spirituality

Children are very close to a spiritual possibility, if only they are not meddled. Generally, either the parents, teachers, society, television – somebody or the other meddles with them too much.

Create an atmosphere where this meddling is minimized and a child is encouraged to grow into his intelligence rather than into your identity of religion. The child will become naturally spiritual without even knowing the word spirituality.

7: Provide A Supportive And Loving Atmosphere

If you set an example of fear and anxiety, how can you expect your children to live in joy? They will also learn the same thing. The best thing you can do is to create a joyous and loving atmosphere.

8: Maintain A Friendly Relationship

Stop imposing yourself on the child and create a strong friendship rather than being a boss. Don’t sit on a pedestal and tell the child what she should do. Place yourself low, so that the child finds it easy to talk to you.

9: Avoid Seeking Respect

Love is what you should seek from your child. But, many parents say, “You must respect me.”

Just because you came a few years early, bigger in body, and you know a few things that the world taught you, you are no better than your child!

10: Make Yourself Truly Attractive

A child is influenced by many things – the TV, neighbors, teachers, school, and a million other things.

He will go the way, whatever he finds most attractive.

As a parent, you have to make yourself more attractive that so that your child is drawn towards you. If you are a joyful, intelligent, and wonderful person, he won’t seek company anywhere else. For anything, he will come and ask you.

If you are genuinely interested in giving your children a good upbringing, you should first transform yourself into a peaceful and loving human being.