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Humour sense is a boon- 14-Dec-2011
According to a certain religion, this life comprises of sorrows and afflictions. Everyday, everyone encounter lot of problems. As a result, they want to be relieved from that stress.
Humour is a simple and easy method to have relief for the time being. Humour can be considered as a great treasure, for this reason it always receives great attention and applause from people. A humorous person not only provides happiness to others but also to himself.
No one would like a person, who is always cribbing and blaming others.
Is it head or turban?
A story goes like this - a man was sentenced to death for false accusation of a religion. The sentence was supposed to be fulfilled through execution. When headman tried to behead the man at his first attempt, he missed the mark and the sword knocked of the victim's turban instead of the head.
As the turban rolled over, even at that critical situation, the man never lost his nerves, but commented, "Is my head rolling over here or my turban?" That is the actual sense of humour!
This story proves that a humourous person can manage any sort of situation (whatever it is). At least few guards around the victim would have felt sorry about losing such a type of jovial person.
First of all, we should know what is real humour sense? As, teasing and mocking others are not real humour. It might be apt only for films, but in real life, a true humour sense should help you to make your enemy a friend. It is difficult to know the difference between ridiculing others and having fun with humour without hurting others. It will be a wonderful tool to dilute certain tense situations and aid to make enemies also as friends.
Another interesting factor of humour sense is to criticise ones own defects. As a result of this, this helps him to correct the mistakes later on. It also would evade others from mocking you.
It is a common ethic to be serious during work time, but that does not mean to keep a taut face at others. Several successful industrialists of this world are good in humour.
Some important benefits
* Humour always breaks the obstacles of your communication and let others to know, you are a approachable person.
* It will take away misconception and create friendly atmosphere.
* It helps to reduce ego and enhance confidence.
* Humour is a good tool to reveal some critical message without hurting others.
* Humour can be considered as a great enemy to envy and misconceptions.
* It provides positive image to an individual.
How about trying to improve our humour sense, since it offers lot of benefits to our life. But, ensure it is also not that easy. Using humour at the right place in an appropriate time is a talent. Some are naturally provided with this talent, but others have to cultivate this through continuous practices or efforts.
Simple methods to develop sense of humour
* Prepare yourself to share funny incidents with others before attending a function or meeting.
* Be aware of not using hard words.
* Always keep some jokes handy and share them at the right time while going through the seminar.
*Let others enjoy the joke, rather than laughing at your own joke.
* If necessary, use some old jokes in certain places.
* Do not tell joke in advance, as it will lose its charm.
* Do not forget to use punch lines, if necessary, because the people will not laugh for all jokes at all times.
* It is also important to avoid humourous speeches at some sort of serious meetings and discussions.
Note
It is important to understand that your own humour sense is not for others always, but for you to enhance your self-confidence and overcome your own pressure. Maybe you may not play a big role keeping other humorous. It is enough if you provide pleasure to few, who are living around you, your life will always be sweet.
