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Getting over embarrassment! - 10-Oct-2017
Embarrassment is a major hurdle that comes in the way of life! Especially in the early stages of career and as well as to those who are very sensitive. Only those who sustain such embarrassment make it to the top in life!
By and large, we can never avoid people around us who derive pleasure by embarrassing others. Deriving such pleasure like this is mainly because of jealousy! This jealousy is a negative quality born with humans!
We should never worry if someone is jealous about you; instead be more happy about it! For the reason that they have found some special gift or skill in you that they do not possess. Realizing this, we should nurture this talent and keep moving forward in life.
We will face many circumstances, where we may have to seek people who are in better position for any help or support. In such situation, they are most likely to mock at us embarrassingly. But, we should never cow down for such remarks.
In the early stages, when Chevalier Sivaji Ganesan was sincerely hunting for a chance in movies, there were times when directors embarrassed by ridiculing him saying, You want to act in cinemas, with this lousy face is it?. For which, he never stopped taking efforts to get a breakthrough into cinemas!
This is the actor that in later days showcased his immense artistic facial skills in cinema. History went on to be that, many directors who ridiculed Sivaji, waited at his doorsteps to sign up for movies. Today, the government itself has built a memorial and has conducted a special celebration for Sivaji Ganesan.
Commonly, self pride is different from good self esteem. Both have significant difference. Self pride is having very high personal worth. Whereas, good self esteem is that, having the self-belief when others pull you down, dusting away their demotivating comments.
We will easily acquire the ability to face any embarrassment, if we do not think low or too low of our self. Then, using embarrassment as a tool for motivation to move on, we can coolly continue on with our journey of life. If you come to this maturity, accolades will automatically follow.
