Kalvimalar

Being a parent comes with challenges, and it's normal to wonder about the best way to raise your kids. You're not alone in this journey, as there are many resources to help you make good decisions. To be a better parent, it's crucial to recognize common mistakes and work on overcoming them. Accepting your mistakes and making changes to your habits is the first step.

Talking when upset: Don't try to teach your child important lessons when you're feeling angry. If you do, your child might get upset too. It's better to calm down first before talking about discipline.

Not understanding their feelings: Take the time to understand your child's feelings. Studies show that being emotionally connected to your child helps them develop a strong sense of self. Try to connect with your child on an emotional level.

Having unrealistic expectations: Problems can arise if you expect too much from your children. Make sure your expectations match what your children are capable of at their age. Being upset with a two-and-a-half-year-old for not cooperating in toilet training or a teenager for being moody might not be fair.

Nagging: Repeating the same thing over and over can annoy your children and make them angry. Instead of nagging, try to calmly teach or tell them what you want. Constantly repeating can spoil their mood.

Fighting in front of them: If you and your partner talk respectfully and avoid fighting in front of your children, it has a positive impact on them. Dragging kids into arguments can contribute to anger issues in adulthood. Keep your disagreements private to create a healthier environment for your children.

---Excerpts from News 18